Haru (to a giant gooey hugefaced monster, which is actually what all Nice Guys look like on the inside): I “friendzoned” you?
So our relationship meant nothing unless you could call “dibs” on me for your sexual pleasure.
Haru Nishimura from “Xam’d: Lost Memories” gives us Nice Guys in a nutshell.
I love all of you.
I am indebted to Cleolinda linking Made of Fail, because I really enjoy the stuff you[Kevin] blog and tweet about.
And this is why many of us use Nice Guy as an insult.
If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that “friend zoned” you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.
The term “Friend Zone” needs to die. There’s no such thing. Either you’re her friend or you’re not; if you’re waiting for something to develop, then you’re either A: not her friend, or B: not basing your friendship on the potential outcome, because if something develops that’s great and if it doesn’t oh well, at least you’re still friends. End of story.
